There's Whole Lot of Hatred Going On

I looked on the Merriam-Webster dictionary to see if there was a stronger word than "hate."   The results suggested that "detest"," loathe," and especially "abhor" were even more intense, where "abhor" is defined as "to regard with extreme repugnance: hatred, loathing..." (Merriam-Webster)

I have found the "h-word" permeating through many of the news sights as of late.  In my observations, it seems that the political left is keen on using this word to describe their feelings towards people such as Donald Trump, the late Charlie Kirk, and Ben Shapiro.  The left doesn't just disapprove of what they say, they hate these people for saying what they do. 

I have experienced this expression of extreme distain first-hand from folks within my own social community.  One liberal musician stated flat out that he "hates Donald Trump" in the same tone as if he was ordering a cup of coffee.  Another suggested we are on the track to becoming the next Nazi Germany.  When I inquired from the latter if this wasn't a bit too strong, he lashed out, saying that I am blind to what is going on.

Political passion being what it is, I am nevertheless disappointed by this extremism in terminology.  I especially find the comparisons to the Nazi state abhorrent (there's my use of the word) because comparing Trump or any one on the moderate political right to the evil that once was, diminishes the legacy of true suffering that was perpetuated on the population, especially those of Jewish origin.

If you disagree with Trump, Kirk, or Shapiro, fine.  But keep the discourse civil.  Decide if they are really worthy of your hate.

If you have to loathe someone, save it for Hitler, Stalin, or any of the other actual murderers in the world.  Trump et al may not be worthy of your respect, but they certainly don't deserve your hatred either.

The Culture of Mediocrity

Is quality even a thing anymore?

It seems that in this day and age, we as consumers are paying way more for way less.  That is not just in terms of quantity, but of quality as well.

A number of years ago, my wife and I had our main bathroom completely overhauled: new shower, vanity, the works.  I had just retired from my full-time job and this upgrade was a gift to ourselves.  We went through the usual process of auditioning contractors and we finally made our choice  Long story short, the finished product was only adequate; this, in spite of their promises and the tens of thousands of dollars we paid.  And...their "lifetime" warranty became moot when they suddenly went bankrupt.

Another point: As a musician, I have to watch my hands so when it comes to car repairs I have it done by professionals.  I went to my automotive specialist and had my summer tires installed.  At home, I discovered they made a mistake that forced me back to their garage on my own time and dime a few days later.  I did get an apology from one of the attendants, but when I was requested to send feedback to the manager, I heard nothing.  I know that no one (understandably) wants to be told that their job is less-than-stellar.  I just wish contractor and service industry folk would realize it for themself.  Is craftsmanship of product or service a thing of the past?

Right now there are renos we could do around the old homestead, but I'm apprehensive.  It seems if you want quality you have to either: find a way to teleport back to the 1950's when contractors actually cared; or, pay huge bucks for high-quality work that should by rights be standard for anyone who sells their expertise.

No wonder so many people are opting for the do-it-yourself approach.  

After all, what choices do we have?